I want to add blog entries that offer insight and hopefully guidance for those who are thinking about booking a session with me or those who are questioning themselves for being attracted to trans women like myself.
One of the most popular conversations that I have with clients goes along these lines "You see I am not attracted to guys at all but then I look at trans women and I am turned on. Does that make me gay? or words to that effect.
So let me break this down for you.
The term "gay" is mainly used to describe males who are sexually attracted to other males and the male form/physique. Two guys sexually attracted to each other would be labelled as "gay". So if you were attracted to David Beckham or Brad Pitt then I would say that you were "gay".
Trans women are not male and do not see themselves as male therefore you are attracted to a trans woman not a male.
I have never met a gay male that is sexually attracted to trans women. I would say that 99.9% of my client base are straight, bi-curious or bisexual.
In terms of labels, and if you know me then you know I hate labels, I would say that straight/bisexual guys meet trans women, and NO, having sexual encounters and being attracted to trans women does NOT make you "gay".
Trust me when I tell you that you will enjoy your life more if you cut the labels out of your experiences. The fact is, you are sexually attracted to trans women, and that's all that matters. It isn't bad, it isn't something to be ashamed of and it certainly doesn't define who you are.
My advice is this:
Live your life, follow your desires and live them.
Keep that shit to yourself and tell no one.
Build the confidence to explore your desires.
Forget about the labels, just go for it.
Life is short. Life is for living. Live it. Love it.
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